Buyer Perspective

Articles

Written by Ton Verleg, who developed Selling is Helping.

27 January 2026 · 4 min read

Selling to CEOs — An Untaught Skill

Seven things running through a CEO’s head before you open your mouth, and what each one asks you to do differently.

6 January 2026 · 4 min read

Why “Buying” a Growth Idea Is Harder Than Anyone Admits

Good ideas rarely get rejected. They get paused, then studied, then quietly abandoned. Why that happens.

28 December 2025 · 2 min read

Modern Buyers Will Stop You

Ten reasons a buyer would politely decline your meeting — written from the buyer’s chair, not the seller’s.

16 December 2025 · 3 min read

I Thought the Discovery Went Well. The Buyer Disagreed.

Every question was answered. Nothing went wrong. Two weeks later, nothing had happened either.

17 September 2025 · 3 min read

Stop Selling. Start Helping.

Buyers don’t lack information. They lack clarity on how to move a decision forward — and that is a different job.

25 August 2025 · 5 min read

Your Solution is Not the Insight

A seller with the right answer and the wrong frame. What changed between the first meeting and the second.


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Ton publishes Selling is Helping weekly on LinkedIn, and has written several hundred pieces on the Buyer Perspective blog. Recent editions:

Are You Reaching The End of the AI Advantage?
18 August 2026
The Warehouse Never Lies
11 August 2026
The Insight Illusion
29 July 2026
The Trusted Advisor Illusion
22 July 2026
The Day I Had to Convince the People Who Built Our Sales Process
15 July 2026
You Gave Your Team AI. Your Buyers Got It Too. Now What?

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